Apr 5, 2015 filed under Living Virtue.

My brother-in-law Andy says his biggest help to building virtue is “creating some order in my life — making what is really important my priority.” He explains why. “The disorganization we have in ourselves affects everything around us and creates this unbelievable stress!” He continues: “And stress is uncontainable. Once it’s there, stress permeates everything we do.” Like the rest of us, Andy is less likely to be virtuous when he’s conflicted than when he is calm inside.

Here’s Andy’s cure for stress: “Prioritize and compartmentalize what you’re doing. And leave each thing in its compartment – it’s hard to do, but forget each thing when you get away from it to concentrate on another priority.”

Andy’s a teacher. He borrowed an illustration to show his students how prioritizing works: he fills a big jar with golf balls, then asks the students whether the jar is full. They say yes. He then adds beads to the jar, which fill the spaces between the golf balls. Again, the students say that the jar is full. Then he adds sand, which fills in between the beads.

His point: don’t start filling your “jar” of time with sand (low priorities) and then be stressed that there’s no room for the golf balls (your really important stuff).

Andy’s recipe for virtue: put the golf balls in first! Schedule what’s most important and let other demands fill in around that. I’m going to take his advice right now and post this before I stay up too late and miss getting enough sleep!

Rose

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4 Responses to “Golf Balls, Beads, and Sand”

  1. Sal

    This is a wonderful example demonstrating the need to prioritize what’s really important first; which will leave some room for the other important things in our lives. It follows then by putting God first and neighbor second, things will fall into place resulting in less stress! Give the Lord what is due Him first and everything else falls into place. It seems to me that your brother-in-law has his priorities right!

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