Why do we pray? There are lots of reasons: to unburden our hearts, listen to God for guidance, ask for a particular grace, gain confidence and calm our anxiety….the reasons are endless.
When it’s hard
We know we need God, but it isn’t always easy to connect with him, even when we know it’s a good thing. Sometimes prayer is like facing a blank sheet of paper in that writing assignment in school: we feel like we’re starting from nothing and have to make it all happen by ourselves. It feels intimidating and scary. And we’d rather not.
How to make it easier
I was reminded in Ralph Martin’s book, Hungry for God: practical help in personal prayer, that it doesn’t have to be hard. Instead, we can start with prayerfully reading scripture or a spiritual book and wait until the words we’re reading get our attention in a special way. When particular words tug at our heart or imagination, we can put the book down and let God draw us deeper.
The words we read become a kind of launch fuel that propels us from the natural to the supernatural—from our own action to God’s action in us. There, we soak in the guidance, or courage, or insight that God wants to give us. We spend that time “resting in God” almost as a patient undergoes repair work while under local anesthesia. We remain conscious, but have allowed God to “operate” on us by briefly giving our heart and imagination to him. In these grace-filled moments, God’s truth sinks into our bones, into our DNA. We are changed. We have become more like God.
Another great reason to pray
As if that were not enough reason to let God take the reins of our soul in holy reading, there is another powerful reason. When we have let the truth of God’s word feed us deeply, when we have digested and really absorbed his word in this way, only then can we bring that healing and conviction to everyone we meet. We become lay preachers in the best sense of the word: we bring the light we have received from God to light up the world!
Tell no one
I always wondered why Jesus told his disciples to “tell no one” about certain actions of his, like his healing of the deaf man (Mark 7:36) or raising a girl from the dead (Luke 8:56). A homily yesterday gave a good answer: it was because the disciples had not yet chewed, digested, and absorbed the truth in Jesus’ words and actions. They would not understand him well enough until after the Resurrection and especially after Pentecost. Spreading the news of his miracles too early would have had no effect because the preachers were still too green.
Be a bright light
It’s the same with us. The beautiful moments in holy reading when we put down the book for a few moments and allow God to heal, guide, and unburden us from the inside are powerful sources of grace to live out our vocation to be lights to the world.
I recommend Ralph Martin’s Hungry for God: practical help in personal prayer. Part One is his remarkable conversion story. Part Two on prayer is pure gold!
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P.S. I’m preparing a FREE “Revive Your Catholic Prayer Life” 5-Day challenge to begin in September. You can help by scrolling down and typing your greatest obstacle to a consistent prayer life. Thanks!!
A mind that wanders to the ever present ‘to do’ list of the day or the ruminations of yesterday. Just trying to stay in the now while listening to God.
Love the challenge idea. Looking forward to it.
I’ve heard it said that the past and future don’t exist; the “now” is our only gift, which is why they call it “the present.” Thanks for your insight and look forward to your joining me in the challenge!
I must admit that prayer comes fairly easily to me. I came into the church as a long time caretaker of my stroke paralyzed wife. The issue was simple; summoning the courage and will to face what I had to do next. But I asked for more. I asked for a shift in my priorities so that I would want to do what what was in front of me. It arrived in the form of brief homilies in the daily mass about job number one: caring for my fellow human beings starting with my wife.
Love this post, Rose….so many take-always.
One of our pastors would often say “Let go, and let God.”
Peace to you this day and everyday.
I’m great at intercession prayer but listening and HEARING God is a real challenge. The only time I’ve had any success is when I journal.
Apologies for the delay in responding. Great to hear you’ve found your way of listening to God. I’ll be starting a free “Revive Your Catholic Prayer Life” 5-Day Challenge starting Sept 30 and I will remember what you wrote in case someone needs another way to “hear” God.